[quote]I have a crush. She is from England and I plan to travel to there next year to meet her in real life. But right now, the only way I can contact her is via Facebook. But it isn't working right now because her account got deactivated. It's the second time this happens. In the first time I had to wait 10 days and then her account got activated again, but this lasted only for 10 days more. I miss her so much. I hope I won't have to wait longer this time, but I'm also afraid the deactivation is permanent, but hopefully not. Also I don't know why she doesn't make another account. Her account is unsafe because Facebook is against it for having non-real name and pictures. I think she wants to stick with her account no matter what. She says she missed me the first time she lost her account, but she didn't really have to miss me because she could have made another account to contact me. [/quote] This is what I posted on another forum some time ago. Things have changed now, though. I feel that her parents told her to deactivate her account to avoid me. The thing is, I tried to contact her on Steam. But I can't add friends on there. So I got my friends to add her so they could tell her about me. But she rejected all friend requests. One of my friends commented on her profile telling her about me, but then she made her account a private one. This makes me so freaking sad. I'm trying to forget about her, but it's hard to forget someone so important for you. She made me snap out of depression and feel happy, very happy. And fulfilled. I just like her so much. She is so nice, sweet and caring. The way she talks is also very adorable, it makes me blush, ehe ^^

Why would her parents avoid you?

[quote="SuperArthurBros"]Why would her parents avoid you?[/quote] Probably because they don't trust strangers

[quote="Topic Title"]I'm so sad...[/quote] [quote="Karen Kujou"]She made me snap out of depression and feel happy, very happy.[/quote] Wait, what?

[quote="Shadow Coconuts"][quote="Topic Title"]I'm so sad...[/quote] [quote="Karen Kujou"]She made me snap out of depression and feel happy, very happy.[/quote] Wait, what?[/quote] Confusing, huh? I mean, I am so happy when she is around, but I feel very hurt when she is away, especially if I think she is mad at me.

How did you two even meet?

[quote="Guinea"]How did you two even meet?[/quote] Long time ago I added people like crazy on Facebook, and she was one of them. I started talking to her 3 months ago. I was interested in her because she had Karen in her fb name, and also because she likes my posts sometimes.

[quote="Karen Kujou"][quote="Guinea"]How did you two even meet?[/quote] Long time ago I added people like crazy on Facebook, and she was one of them. I started talking to her 3 months ago. I was interested in her because she had Karen in her fb name, and also because she likes my posts sometimes.[/quote] [img]http://i64.tinypic.com/o0pl05.png[/img] Umm, you're in love with someone you just met on Internet for these reasons?

[quote="SuperArthurBros"][quote="Karen Kujou"][quote="Guinea"]How did you two even meet?[/quote] Long time ago I added people like crazy on Facebook, and she was one of them. I started talking to her 3 months ago. I was interested in her because she had Karen in her fb name, and also because she likes my posts sometimes.[/quote] [img]http://i64.tinypic.com/o0pl05.png[/img] Umm, you're in love with someone you just met on Internet for these reasons?[/quote] No, uhh, there are many more reasons. I like her because she is so nice to me, she motivates me to do things, she worries about me, and we also have almost everything in common...

It's not love, it's infatuation. It sounds like she's just not really interested in you. I'm not saying you should just forget about her, because that ain't easy, especially when being really infatuated. Even when the feelings vanish eventually, she could still be a good friend, and maybe something really sparks if you ever meet up in real life. I'd wait for an opportunity to open up so you can confront her yourself, and I'd also tell her to be upfront honest with you. Uncertainity always sucks.

Ugh, don't be that person. DJ Coco is right, it's infatuation and it's probably either overwhelming or unwanted. A few people decided once that they were in love with my wife (then girlfriend) simply because she was nice to them over the internet, and it turned into them sending her messages and then getting all needy and depressed when my wife finally got too weirded out to reply. Now she avoids talking to people over the internet like a plague. If she's nice to you then that's dandy, but don't take being nice as "she loves me", she might just be a decent and polite person.